If you have the time, I think you will all benefit from reading this inspiring letter.
If we feel God's love in someone's love for us, then that is right and good. I remember once in India telling the woman saint, Anandamoyi Ma, how much I and others in America loved her. Her reply was, "There is no love except God's love."
The worldly ego might take her reply as a put-down, but I understood it as a reminder that we can truly love others only to the degree that we do so consciously as instruments of God's love.
It is easy to feel love for those who are kind and good, and easier still if they love us. But the test of godly love is to be able to feel it also for those who hate us. And especially for those who are determined to destroy us. God says to us, "They are My children, too." In other words, "If you love Me, you must love them also, for they are Mine." We must love not only them, but all the tests that God sends us.
Ultimately, the only important thing you can do in life is love God. The only fact that truly matters in life is that God loves you.
It is a simple fact that the more we try to do good, the more enemies we will have--along with those who sincerely love, appreciate, and support us. But even were everyone to turn against us, the supremely important fact of God's love will never change. The tests we face, therefore, are always blessings. If nothing else, they inspire us to keep that one divine priority fixed ever before our gaze. Everything else passes. Our relationship with God is eternal. He is our own, as no one else ever will or ever can be.
The solution to our worries is love, and more--divine love, not egoic love (the ego's love is rooted in likes and dislikes). As the Bible says, "Perfect love casteth out fear."
"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." When your love for Him is effortless and completer, you will have Him.
In Divine Friendship
Excerpt from Swamiji's book: "In Divine Friendship"